Anita! This is raw, personal, and honest. I’m in awe of the directness that you’ve come to in this process: it helps me. The clarity that comes from true sobriety. I made similar decisions several years ago — albeit without the devastating specter of life-threatening health problems — opting to live for something more meaningful to me, rather than toward the goal that you describe so perfectly. I worried then whether I was being irresponsible, but I have never once looked back and regretted the choice. As soon as I could no longer afford the stuff that was once so important to me, it ceased to matter whatsoever. Hang in there, this’ll be a challenging year … the honesty will get you through … as will your creative voice! Love you.
I love you, too, Jeff. Thank you. Yes, a life threatening illness gives urgency to the decision. I believe it is the right decision. It helps to know I have your support.
Your strong voice comes through in this essay. It will speak to so many people. You are generous in what you share. I hope you can turn these Substack pieces into one of your essays. Or leave them be as they are following Abigail Thomas. I know you write larger pieces, but your short ones are very nice too! It is clear you can do both. I like this one!
We do not hear these truths. It’s so terribly hard to speak up. You speak for many. Thank you for your honesty.
Anita! This is raw, personal, and honest. I’m in awe of the directness that you’ve come to in this process: it helps me. The clarity that comes from true sobriety. I made similar decisions several years ago — albeit without the devastating specter of life-threatening health problems — opting to live for something more meaningful to me, rather than toward the goal that you describe so perfectly. I worried then whether I was being irresponsible, but I have never once looked back and regretted the choice. As soon as I could no longer afford the stuff that was once so important to me, it ceased to matter whatsoever. Hang in there, this’ll be a challenging year … the honesty will get you through … as will your creative voice! Love you.
I love you, too, Jeff. Thank you. Yes, a life threatening illness gives urgency to the decision. I believe it is the right decision. It helps to know I have your support.
Your strong voice comes through in this essay. It will speak to so many people. You are generous in what you share. I hope you can turn these Substack pieces into one of your essays. Or leave them be as they are following Abigail Thomas. I know you write larger pieces, but your short ones are very nice too! It is clear you can do both. I like this one!
Oh Anita
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